( I wanted to start to teach these things people look for every day )
I started my website: Changethewhy with a good friend and we had the idea to share all the things that allow us to live wherever we want, learn anything we want, get out of the boring life. Very soon after we started, people started to criticise us and really attack us.
SO:
About 2 months ago I stopped coaching, adding new students, answering any question, and socializing with anyone besides my already existing friends/family and students.
I was so pissed that I couldn't stand anyone else stealing any time of my life!
Then I listened to a Tim Ferriss Podcast, where he got asked how he deals with clients who are acting weird and his answer was genious:
" Everybody says: Customer is King. Bullshit!!! There are alot of stupid people out there. Treat your loyal customers better than yourself! "
That really caught my attention. Not every customer is King. Only the good customers are King. Why should I allow people to attack me? I am not attacking them. And the point here is not that it is not their right. It actually is, but the point is that I don't want to deal with these people. As long as all I do is to help other people and provide insane value to everybodies life, then I shouldn't spend my time with negativity.
If you want the best of me, then I want the best of you too ( most people confuse "the best" for being money, but it is actually, you not acting like an asshole and respect me and my time like I respect you and your time ).
There is so much information out there that no one knows which lead they should follow.
What should my nutrition look like?
How should I workout?
What to do with my money?
Whom can I trust?
How do I make more money in my Job?
..............
There are soo many important questions and to me it feels like we are getting to a point where there are more answers than questions.
Today I saw a commercial on TV where a guy promoted his "NEW" body-weight workout. " Only 3 times 20 minutes per week. And all you need is your own body weight and within 8 weeks you will have your perfect body."
I mean..., really? Are you kidding me? How is it possible, that people still believe this BS?
No one ever heard about Elliot Hulse, the 5x5 workout routine, Frank Medrano, or anything compareable? These guys don't BS you.
It takes time. And media wants you to believe that it is easy if you follow these 3 steps for 7 days....you will have huge biceps, more money, more success, better sex....
COME ON!!! Wake up!
Anything you want takes time. You can not treat your body like shit, eat unhealthy stuff for 10 years then follow these guys for 1 month and then be discouraged if you don't find the results you want.
Start with these things, but continue!!! Do it over and over and over again!
If you lift weights 1 time per week and stop eating chocolate chips and cookies every day, that's a good start. That is a big improvement and your body over time will show results.
The magic words are : over time!
The main difference between you, me and the most successful people is not that they got insanely lucky.
The main difference is that these guys consistently do the right things. They have habits and follow them every single day. They have values and don't allow anything in their lives to interfere.
The first thing I will do is listen to all Tim Ferriss Podcasts again and take notes and share them with you. You will be able to read all my notes and find all programs, apps, books and many more stuff that I use to be more productive and effective in my life HERE on my blog.
One very special thing that I never did for free is giving away all my ideas. So if you are interested in using my ideas to start a product, a site or anything else just contact me. I will be more than happy to share ideas with you that can potentially create you a new source of income.
Let's start. Life is great, and I hope that my blog will prove you how great it can be.
Please share with me your story.
I wish you all the best.
Pedro
